Saturday, April 25, 2009
I Could Eat This All Day
Gavin came to me yesterday afternoon asking for a snack. I told him to go to the fridge for some berries or yogurt. Much time passed in silence and I continued on with whatever I was doing and then I hear this: "I could eat this all day!". Hmm, not a remark one makes about berries and yogurt. Here's what I found at the fridge.


The boy was eating fist fulls of berry trifle straight from the dish. He was wrist deep. Admittedly, there were berries in it. He was unapologetic and only had this to say when I pulled out the camera and started snapping shots:" Mom, why aren't you yelling, You're going to ruin your dinner!" Good question. In my head I'm thinking #1 I have no idea what I'm feeding you for dinner and #2 I didn't have the heart to yell at him. He was just that happy... and really, really cute.
Monday, April 13, 2009
Bunny Debunked
And then it happened, logic kicked in and one thing led to another one evening during our fireside chat ( no fire but lots of chatting). " Mom, are you Santa too?" Think fast mom. And then it hit me, the thing I feared for him, the hurt, the feeling of betrayal, had already happened ... and I brought it on myself! Now, I don't usually learn from my mistakes. This is a widely know fact. But this time I surprized myself. My response: " All Santa needs is someone to believe in him. Isn't it nice to think about Santa?" This was all he needed. A life line. " I still think Santa is real then mom." So we both felt better. I didn't technically lie and Jacob got to still keep the magical lights burning bright. Sigh. It's hard making mistakes with the kids. The guilt lingers longer and harder. I know that the question of the Easter bunny is rather trifling, he'll get over this one unscathed to be sure. But I was trying to protect him from the harsh reality layed out by someone else carelessly one day, and I ended up hurting him myself. The line between protecting and preparing them for real life is so hard to navigate, and it gets harder every year, not easier. I didn't see it coming.
Easter
Notice a theme in pictures taken with Jacob? Bunny ears are always funny. No matter what.
So, we had a lovely day. It was not without wrinkles though, as most days are. Complaints, whines, naughty words, and general pandemonium abound. We ended our day back in our neighborhood riding bikes, trucks, scooters, and skateboards down the street with friends. This is Jacob and Gavin's favorite, most beloved activity. They are never happier than when they are playing with neighbors on things that move fast. Brad and I ended our day by enjoying a beer and eating crackers at the end of the driveway( okay, just me) like any self respecting parents would do at the end of a religious holiday. High expectations can be wearing. Phew... it was a good day.
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
Collections
Sometimes they collect special rocks, sticks, flowers, snail shells. They can spend an hour or more collecting. Sometimes it's beer caps. A few months ago when Jacob was taking a class in Carrboro, near The Cats Cradle, Gavin and I searched for beer caps. There were plenty to choose from. After a few classes of this, the caps began to run dry and we widened our search to the railroad tracks and behind a different bar. Classy. He kept them in his pockets for a looong time. I can only imagine what people thought each time he produced one to show off. Probably that his parents have cheap taste in beer, which is dead true.
Monday, April 6, 2009
Just some pictures
This one is courtesy of Gavin. I was asked to add the word "stop" on the sign. Not sure what that's all about but as I understand it, that "B" stands for Brad and that is Brad in the car. That tree in the upper right corner makes me smile. I was drawing my picture at the same time. I drew pine trees near a river. I look over and Gavin has drawn one on his paper without saying a word to me about it. I love when kids do that. Those spidery things are what I like to call Gavin's classic spider suns. He draws them all the time and they were the first thing he learned to draw. I think they were originally intended to be people but even Gavin knew it was a stretch. So they became spider suns.
On their most recent visit to Papa and Nana's house, the boys got to do some of their favorite things. They took a trip to the Macaroni and Cheese Store ( a.k.a. Golden Coral) and had at it. As I hear it ( I was left at home) Jacob ate as though his life depended on it. The boy loves a buffet. Gav practiced restraint. They also raided Papa's change jar and once cashed in, purchased more action figures. We certainly do NOT have enough of those around here. Another much loved experience is the Nana biscuit. Since Gavin isn't so much into food yet, Jacob is the cheerleader for the Nana biscuit. "Nana, did you make the biscuits yet?" " Where's Nana? Are the biscuits done?" This is the morning exchange... beginning around 7:00am. Nana makes a delicious egg and cheese biscuit. And it is made with love ... half asleep. We also love to talk about Maggie ( their dog) and what mischief she's been up to. Recently, cousin Hannah has been making appearances at the house and that is SO much fun. Hannah is old enough to take good care of the kids and young enough to still have the motivation. We love playing with Hannah. And let's not forget the treats. Treats are a special part of the Papa and Nana visit to be sure. We're talking treats with a capitol "T". This might be my favorite part too. But really, the very best part is visiting with Papa and Nana who think that the mold was broken with these boys. That kind of love trumps an ice cream sandwich any day.
If the theory proves true, this cats lineage ends here. He does this every chance he gets.
We found this fish tank. Stay tuned. The cats have given it the paws up, WAY UP!
When dad is in charge, bowling happens. Check out the cool athletic shorts. Those happen when dad's in charge too. Our kids so love it when dad's in charge.
Chillin' with Dr. Seuss. He also likes to read Jacobs Diary of a Wimpy Kid. He flips through the pages "reading" the pictures of preteen boys doing gross things with their gum. Innocence gone.
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